性
Tip
饱暖思淫欲，每天吃少点并多做运动
Why
感受满足 —— 多巴胺
How
自慰？达到高潮？
What
issue
- 性瘾
- 因追求刺激而突破个体认知层的拘束, 以达到新一层级的刺激, 多少让人一下接受不了的同时, 又想多看几眼
- 做爱总是会口渴
- 做爱需要不会破的纸巾
- 卫生 / 疑难杂症 (偏男性)
- Delayed ejaculation 忍精不射
- 于我而言，性刺激往往先于自慰行为发生，充血状态其实已经持续了很长时间，对比传统性行为，这其实已经有点频繁了；
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- 贤者时间 / 性交后忧郁 / Post-coital tristesse1
Every animal is sad after coitus except the human female and the rooster 除了人类女性和公鸡之外，所有动物在交配后都会感到悲伤 by Galen(Greek)
If this does not completely engross, still it thoroughly confuses and dulls the mind. 如果这不能完全全神贯注，它仍然会彻底混淆和麻木头脑 by Baruch Spinoza
性交和自慰
- 一个人的性：自慰
- 两人以上的性：做爱
色情片本身就有异化的价值观和镜头引导, 往往关乎两个人的权力系统, 曾看过一句话:
Everything in the world is about sex, except sex, sex is about power
如若真要关注性本位, 是否要退回到一个人的世界, 即那些一个人 Show 的视频也许才是真的有关于 ” 纯粹 ” 性的交合, 也许这正是我真正的诉求? 同时一个人的交合是真正的交合吗?
一些中英术语对照表
| English | Chinese |
|---|---|
| Anal sex | 肛交 |
| Anal plugs (small) | 肛门塞栓、小 |
| Anal plugs (large) | 肛门塞栓、大 |
| Anal plug (public, underclothes) | 肛门塞栓、公开场合、在衣服内 |
| Animal roles | 扮演动物角色 |
| Arm&leg sleeves (armbinders) | 臂腿袖套、固定手臂 |
| Asphyxiation | 窒息 |
| Auctioned for charity | 慈善拍卖 |
| Bathroom use control | 控制使用厕所 |
| 被兽肛交 | 兽交 |
| Beating (soft) | 咬、轻 |
| Beating (hard) | 咬、重 |
| Blindfolds | 眼罩、蒙眼 |
| Being serviced (sexual) | 被性服务 |
| Being bitten | 咬、夹 |
| Breast/chest bondage | 胸部捆绑 |
| Breath control | 呼吸控制 |
| Branding | 烙印 |
| Boot worship | 长靴崇拜 |
| Bondage (light) | 轻度捆绑 |
| Bondage (heavy) | 重度捆绑 |
| Bondage (multi-day) | 数日连续捆绑 |
| Bondage (public, underclothing) | 捆绑，公开场合，衣服下 |
| Breast whipping | 鞭挞乳房/胸部 |
| Brown showers(scat) | 棕色淋浴、擦刮、似为以粪便涂抹全身 |
| Cages (locked inside of) | 锁入牢笼 |
| Caning | 棍打 |
| Catheterization | 导管/导尿 |
| Cells/Closets (locked inside of) | 锁入密室/壁橱 |
| Chastity belts | 贞操带 |
| Chaueffering | 汽车司机/运送 |
| Choking | 闭气/窒息 |
| Clothespins | 衣夹 |
| Cock worship | 阳具崇拜 |
| Collars (worn in private) | 奴隶项圈、私下佩戴 |
| Collars (worn in public) | 奴隶项圈、公开场合佩戴 |
| Competitions (with otherSubs) | 与其它奴隶/受虐者比赛 |
| Corsets (wearing) | 穿紧身衣 |
| Cuffs (leather) | 镣铐、皮革 |
| Cuffs (metal) | 镣铐、金属 |
| Cutting | 切割/切口 |
| Dilation | 膨胀/扩张 |
| Double penetration | 双阳具插入 |
| Electricity | 电 |
| 3Enemas | 灌肠 |
| Enforced chastity | 强制贞操 |
| Examinations (physical) | 身体检查/审查 |
| Exercise (forced/required) | 运动、强迫/要求 |
| Exhibitionism (friends) | 露阴、向朋友 |
| Exhibitionism (strangers) | 露阴、向生人 |
| Eye contact restrictions | 限制目光接触 |
| Face slapping | 掴击脸部/打耳光 |
| Fantasy abandonment | 幻想抛弃 |
| Fantasy rape | 幻想强奸 |
| Fantasy gang-rape | 幻想轮奸 |
| Fisting (anal) | 肛门手交：整个拳头插入肛门 |
| Following orders | 跟随命令 |
| Foot worship | 脚部崇拜 |
| Forced dressing | 强迫着装 |
| Forced homosexuality | 强迫同性恋 |
| Forced masturbation | 强迫自慰 |
| Forced nudity (private) | 强迫裸体、私下 |
| Forced nudity (around others) | 强迫裸体、在其他人中 |
| Forced servitude | 强迫劳役 |
| Full head hoods | 完全蒙盖头部/蒙头 |
| Gags (cloth) | 封口、布料 |
| Gags (rubber) | 封口、橡胶 |
| Gates of Hell (male) | 地狱之门、男性 |
| Genital sex | 生殖器性行为/正常性交 |
| NOGolden showers | 金色淋浴/屎尿 |
| Hairbrush spankings | 用毛刷拍打 |
| Hair pulling | 拖拉头发 |
| Hand jobs (giving) | 用手、给予 |
| Hand jobs (receiving) | 用手、接受 |
| Harems (serving w/othersubs) | 女眷、与其他奴隶一起服伺主人 |
| Harnessing (leather) | 束以马具/笼头、皮革 |
| Harnessing (rope) | 束以马具/笼头、绳索 |
| Having food chosen for you | 食用为你挑选的食物 |
| Having clothing chosen for you | 穿着为你挑选的服装 |
| Head (giving fellatio) | 口交、给予 |
| Head (receiving fellatio) | 口交、接受 |
| High heel worship | 高跟鞋崇拜 |
| Homage with toungue(non-sexual) | 用舌头表达尊敬、非性行为 |
| Hot oils (on genitals) | 热油、用于生殖器 |
| Hot waxing | 上热蜡 |
| Housework (doing) | 做家务 |
| Human puppy dog | 人扮小狗 |
| Humiliation (private) | 羞辱、私下 |
| Humiliation (public) | 羞辱、公开场合 |
| Hypnotism | 催眠 |
| Ice cubes | 冰块 |
| Infantalism | 扮小孩 |
| Initiation rites | 发起仪式 |
| Injections | 注射/注入 |
| Intricate (Japanese) ropebondage | 复杂的绳索绑缚/日本式绑缚 |
| Interrogations | 审问 |
| Kidnapping | 绑架/绑票/劫持 |
| Kneeling | 跪拜 |
| Leather clothing | 皮革服装 |
| Leather restraints | 皮革拘束 |
| Lectures for misbehavior | 对不端品行的斥骂/训诫 |
| Licking (non-sexual) | 舔舐、非性行为 |
| Manacures (giving) | 修剪指甲、给予 |
| Massage (giving) | 按摩、给予 |
| Massage (receiving) | 按摩、接受 |
| Medical scenes | 医疗场景 |
| Modeling for erotic photos | 为色情照片作模特 |
| Mouth bits | 嘴抑制/勒嘴 |
| Mummification | 木乃伊化 |
| Nipple clamps | 乳头夹 |
| Nipple weights | 乳头承重物 |
| Over-the-knee spanking | 膝部以上拍打 |
| Orgasm denial | 拒绝高潮 |
| Orgasm control | 控制高潮 |
| Outdoor scenes | 户外场景 |
| Outdoor sex | 户外性交 |
| Phone sex (serving Dom) | 电话性行为、服伺主人 |
| Phone sex (serving Dom’sfriends) | 电话性行为、服伺主人的朋友 |
| Piercing (temporary,play-pierce) | 身体穿孔、短时间、穿孔游戏 |
| Piercing (permanant) | 身体穿孔、永久 |
| Prison scenes | 监狱场景 |
| Public exposure | 暴露于公开场合 |
| Pussy/cock whipping | 鞭挞阴部/阴茎 |
| Pussy worship | 女阴崇拜 |
| Riding crops | 马鞭 |
| Riding the “horse” (crotchtort.) | 骑“马”、折磨胯部 |
| Rituals | 仪式/典礼 |
| Religious scenes | 宗教场景 |
| Restrictive rules on behavior | 限制举止 |
| Rubber/latex clothing | 橡胶/乳胶服装 |
| Rope body harness | 绳索捆绑身体 |
| Saran wrapping | 用丝龙包裹 |
| Scratching - getting | 搔刮、接受 |
| Scratching - giving | 搔刮、给予 |
| Sensory deprivation | 感观剥夺/感觉剥夺 |
| Serving | 服务/侍候 |
| Serving as art | 作为艺术品服伺 |
| 3Serving as ashtray | 作为烟灰缸服伺/给主人当烟灰缸 |
| Serving as furniture | 作为家具服伺/给主人当家具 |
| Serving as a maid | 作为女仆服伺/给主人当女仆 |
| Serving as toilet | 作为厕所服伺/给主人当厕所 |
| Serving aswaitress/waiter | 作为侍者服伺/给主人当侍者 |
| Serving orally (sexual) | 用口服伺、性行为 |
| Serving other doms(supervised) | 服伺其他主人、在监督下/主场 |
| Serving other doms(unsupervised) | 服伺其他主人、无监督/主场 |
| Sexual deprivation (short term) | 性剥夺、短时间 |
| Sexual deprivation (long term) | 性剥夺、长时间 |
| Shaving (body hair) | 剃光体毛 |
| Shaving (head hair) | 剃光头发 |
| Sleep deprivation | 睡眠剥夺 |
| 3Sleepsacks | 睡袋 |
| Slutty clothing (private) | 淫荡服装、私下 |
| Slutty clothing (public) | 淫荡服装、公开场合 |
| Spanking | 拍打 |
| Spandex clothing | 弹性纤维服装 |
| Speech restrictions (when,what) | 语言限制、限制说话时间及内容 |
| Speculums (Anal) | 扩张窥视器、肛门 |
| Spreaderbars | 手足伸展棒/把两足或两手绑在棍棒两端使其尽量伸展 |
| Standing in corner | 墙角罚站 |
| Stocks | 长袜/储备 |
| Straight jackets | 直接/只穿上衣外套 |
| Strap-on-dildos (sucking on) | 穿戴式假阳具、舔舐 |
| Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by) | 穿戴式假阳具、抽插 |
| Strap-on-dildos (wearing) | 穿戴式假阳具、穿着 |
| Strapping (full body beating) | 用皮带/皮鞭抽打全身 |
| Suspension (upright) | 悬吊、直立 |
| Suspension (inverted) | 悬吊、颠倒/倒吊 |
| Suspension (horizontal) | 悬吊、水平 |
| Supplying new partners for Dom | 为主人提供新伙伴 |
| Swallowing semen | 吞咽精液 |
| Swallowing urine | 吞咽尿液/饮尿 |
| Swapping (with one othercouple) | 交换、与另一对配偶 |
| Swinging (multiple couples) | 交换、与多对配偶 |
| Tattooing | 绞身 |
| Teasing | 挑逗/取笑 |
| Tickling | 搔痒 |
| Triple penetration | 三阳具插入 |
| Uniforms | 制服 |
| Including others | 包括其他人 |
| Verbal humiliation | 口头羞辱/言辞羞辱 |
| Vibrator on genitals | 对生殖器使用震荡按摩器 |
| Voyeurism (watching others) | 窥淫、看其他人 |
| Voyeurism (your Domw/others) | 窥淫、看你主人与其他人 |
| Video (watching others) | 观看录像 |
| Video (recordings of you) | 观看自己的录像 |
| Water torture | 用水折磨 |
| Wearing symbolic jewelery | 佩戴象征性珠宝饰物 |
| Whipping | 鞭挞 |
| Wooden paddles | 木板、如球拍等、击打 |
| Wrestling（角力/扭打/格斗/摔跤） | 角力/扭打/格斗/摔跤 |
via: SM专用词语中英文对照 @ (つ￣3￣)つ 請叫偶 山下澈希 : 痞客邦 :
| English | Chinese |
|---|---|
| see nipples through a T-shirt nipples show through a T-shirt | 激凸 (女上) |
| camel toe(輪廓形似駱駝的腳趾) | 激凸 (女下) |
| moose knuckle(駝鹿關節) | 激凸 (男) |
| cum inside creampie(奶油派) internal ejaculation | 中出/內射 |
| squirting female ejaculation gushing | 潮吹 |
| give someone head go down on someone give someone a blow job eat someone out(女) | 口交 |
| fingering | 指交 |
via: 【變態英文】激凸、中出、內射、潮吹、口交、指交等18禁英文！ – 英文庫
| CN | EN |
|---|---|
| 性開放 | Sex permissiveness |
| 貞 操 | Chastity |
| 性 愛 | Heterosexuality |
| 異性魔力 | Sex-appeal |
| 約 會 | Date |
| 上身脫光 | Topless |
| 下身脫光 | Bottomless |
| 獻慇勤 | Gallant |
| 挑 逗 | Lascivious |
| 誘 惑 | Lure |
| 吊膀子 | Flirt |
| 調 戲 | Philander |
| 勾 搭 | Accost |
| 勾 上 | Get-in |
| 送秋波 | Ogle |
| 送男人 | Vamp |
| 灌迷湯 | Flattery |
| 爭 風 | Vivalry |
| 吃 醋 | Jealousy |
| 偷偷摸摸 | Sneaky guy |
| 半推半就 | Between refusal&consent |
| 接 吻 | Kiss |
| 擁 吻 | Embrass |
| 吐 舌 | Thrust out tongue |
| 亂 摸 | Fumble about |
| 撫 弄 | Paddle private parts |
| 縱 慾 | Sexual excess |
| 性衝動 | Sex impulse |
| 玩弄生殖器 | Peotillomania |
| 雞 巴 | Cock |
| 陰莖勃起 | Priapism |
| 早晨勃起 | Morning erection |
| 痛性勃起 | Chordee |
| 蠕 動 | Peristalsis |
| 淫 樂 | Carnal pleasure |
| 男吃水蜜桃 | Cunnilingus |
| 女吹簫 | Fellation |
| 演活春宮 | Performing indecent act |
| 春 宮 | Pronography |
| 假陰莖 | Olisbos |
| 羊眼圈 | Hair circle |
| 挑逗女性器官器 | Vibrator |
| 子宮帽 | Cervix cap |
| 子宮套 | Pessary |
| 樂 普 | Loop |
| 橡膠環 | Rubberring |
| 男用保險套 | French cap;Lubricate prophylactic |
| 潤滑劑 | Antifriction |
| 滑 液 | Synovia |
| 內分泌 | Endocrine |
| 分泌物 | Secretion |
| 淫 水 | Semen |
| 房 事 | Conjugal rite |
| 性行為 | Sexual behavior |
| 性潮紅 | Sex flush |
| 性 交 | Sexual intercourse |
| 交 合 | Coition |
| 開 苞 | Depucelation;defloration |
| 早 洩 | Prematured ejaculation |
| 射 精 | Ejaculation |
| 射精終止 | Onanism |
| 陰戶外射 | Coitus interrupted |
| 忍精交 | Coitus reserved |
| 乳間交 | Coitus intermammas |
| 屈交式 | Knee-chest position |
| 性滿足 | Erotism |
| 虐待式快感 | Sadism |
| 手 淫 | Masturbation |
| 夢與妖女交 | Succubus |
| 夢 遺 | Nocturnal pollution |
| 脫 衣 | Undress |
| 袒 胸 | Expose bosom |
| 剝 光 | Strip off |
| 一絲不掛 | Nude |
| 赤 身 | Bar |
| 裸 體 | Naked |
| 半 裸 | Semi-nude |
| 不穿褲子 | Breechless |
| 天體運動 | Nudism |
| 思 春 | Pubescent |
| 意 淫 | Idea lewd |
| 想入非非 | Fanciful |
| 淫 亂 | Impurity |
| 姦 淫 | Adultery |
| 姦 情 | Amour |
| 有婦之夫 | Cicisbeo |
| 情 郎 | Beau |
| 姦 夫 | Adulterer |
| 姦婦之夫 | Cuckold |
| 姦 婦 | Adulteress |
| 淫 婦 | Whore |
| 偷 情 | Illicit intercourse |
| 幽 會 | Trysting |
| 私 通 | Intimacy |
| 溝 合 | Venery |
| 通 姦 | Liaison |
| 和 姦 | Adultery |
| 捉 姦 | Seize adulterer |
| 兩男夾女 | Chicken sandwich |
| 姦 污 | Violate |
| 雞 姦 | Sodomy |
| 強 姦 | Rape |
| 亂 交 | Promiscuity |
| 人獸性交 | Bestiality |
| 屍 姦 | Necromania |
| 交接痛 | Dysparcunia |
| 性冷感 | Frigidity |
| 陽 痿 | Impotence |
| 萎 縮 | Atrophy |
| 虛 脫 | Abiotrophy |
| 色慾過度 | Lustful excess |
| 節 慾 | Continence |
| 絕 欲 | Suppress passion |
| 不能人道 | Asexualitand |
| 亂 倫 | Incest |
| 倒鳳顛鸞 | Sexual perversion |
| 性反常行為 | Perversion |
| 同居過夜 | Shack |
| 陪愛人睡 | Bundling |
| 擁抱而睡 | Cuddle |
| 溫柔鄉 | Conjugal bed |
| 捲 逃 | Abscond |
| 色慾過度 | Lustful excess |
| 節 慾 | Continence |
| 絕 欲 | Suppress passion |
| 不能人道 | Asexualitand |
| 亂 倫 | Incest |
| 倒鳳顛鸞 | Sexual perversion |
| 性反常行為 | Perversion |
| 同居過夜 | Shack |
| 陪愛人睡 | Bundling |
| 擁抱而睡 | Cuddle |
| 溫柔鄉 | Conjugal bed |
| 私 奔 | Elopement |
| 仙人跳 | Creep joint |
| 放白鴿 | Stool pigeon |
| 色 慾 | Concupiscent |
| 銷 魂 | Rapture |
via: Re: (閒聊) 學校不會教的西斯英文 - 看板 sex - 批踢踢實業坊
References
- 你有哪些莫名其妙的高潮经历并且记忆犹新的？ - 知乎
- Aneros Wiki
- Top Adult Websites Ranking in September 2022 | Similarweb
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Footnotes
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a.k.a post-coital dysphoria / post-nut clarity is the feeling of sadness, anxiety, agitation or aggression, after sexual intercourse or masturbation; via: Post-coital tristesse - Wikipedia ↩